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Why Hope is the Most Important Thing We Can Share

Everyone needs hope. I didn’t recognize the caller on my ID. Still, I picked up the phone.

“I was wondering if there was a Pete Peterson there,” the woman said.

Wrong numbers happen. But I didn’t hang up. Instead, I heard something.

“Stay on the phone”

It was a simple statement, but I knew that voice. A voice I had heard before. And listening to that voice, I have never been sorry.

“No, I’m sorry. We are the Peterson’s, but there is no Pete here.”

I thought it was funny because my husband, Mike, used to be called “Pete” by his army buddies.

A lost friend

“I’m looking for our friend we’ve known for years. We somehow lost touch and it’s very important I find him.”

I sensed she would share more, and I was right.

“You see, my husband is about to celebrate his 80th birthday and it would mean so much to him if I could find Pete and he could be there.”

My heart was touched with her story.

“Have you tried to search online?” I asked.

“I’m afraid I’m not very good on the computer. My daughter did try for a while but came up with nothing.”

Even then, I could have said, “I’m sorry. I hope you find your friend.”

I could have. But instead, I heard the same words, “Stay on the phone.”

A choice to make

“I could try to find him online if you like,” I said.

The woman became quiet. And then said,

“Oh, could you? And if you find him, just tell him that Shirley Peterson is having a party for her husband and she would love it if you could call her.”

Her appreciation came through the phone, loud and clear. Sure. I knew I might have an easier time than she would, although I was no technological pro. If you don’t believe me, ask my kids.

Still, there was something here. Something worth pursuing.

More to the story

And then she continued. “My husband is ill. He has cancer. And I’m afraid if I don’t have this party, I won’t get another chance.”

I felt moved by her story.

“May I pray for you, Shirley?”

“Why yes,” she said without hiding her surprise.

“Father, God, I bring Shirley before you. I pray that you would help her find their family friend Pete. Lord, you know where he is. If it would please you, Lord, I pray that somehow Shirley would be able to have him at her husband’s party. And God, I pray for Shirley’s husband. Will you touch his body and help him as he struggles with this illness. I pray this in Your Son’s precious and Holy name. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

“No one has ever prayed for me before,” she said, crying.

Those words sunk into the deepest part of me.

A simple question

“Why have you offered to help me?” she asked.

“I have a personal relationship with God. I am a Christ follower. And I believe he wants me to help you.”

Hope. I had given Shirley hope. Even if I didn’t find Pete. I could tell she was encouraged that I had given her time. Sometimes just spending time with people gives them hope. It lets them know they are worth someone’s time.

“Oh, thank you so much. You are an angel,” she said.

“I am not an angel,” I said as softly as possible. I’ll call you if I have any news, Shirley.

And with that, I hung up.

It’s amazing how much searching you can get done on the computer. I spent a couple of days working on it, praying all the time. Coming up empty. And I’d just pray some more.

I believe God cares about all of us. I knew he cared about Shirley. I also believe he cared about the party she wanted to throw her ill husband.

Finally, at the end of the second day, I realized I didn’t have any good news to pass on to Shirley.

No luck

On the phone with a friend of mine, I relayed the whole story.

Lois listened and then replied, “I know a Pete Peterson.”

I remembered Pete’s last name was spelled differently. So I asked my friend if she could spell his name.

Sadly, it was s-o-n, like we spelled ours and Shirley was explicit about the spelling. Still, I thought I’d ask for his number. Just in case.

I dialed the number, tempted to feel foolish calling a complete stranger. But I pushed those feelings out. This was important. Worth making a mistake with a stranger.

“Hello,” the man answered.

And I launched into the story. He was kind enough to listen and when I had explained why I called, and who I was looking for, he quietly said,

“That’s me. I’m the Pete you are looking for. I recently moved and had lost their number. I can hardly believe I’ll get to see them again. Thank you, SO much.”

I sat quietly, letting him finish. Then I told him I’d pass his number on to Shirley. And then I made my call, all the while, praising God that he let me find her friend.

The best call ever

“Shirley, I found Pete!” I said.

“What!!” she replied.

I knew she was crying just as I was. Tears of joy.

“Oh, thank you. Thank you SO much. My husband will be so happy.”

A couple weeks went by and I received another call from Shirley.

“I’d really like to meet you. Would that be possible?”

“Of course,” I responded. I wanted to meet this person God had brought into my life.

I got a ride to the McDonald’s restaurant we agreed to meet in. As I sat there waiting, I thought it would be easy to identify sweet Shirley. And I was not mistaken.

She walked in and a huge smile covered her face, as she asked, “Are you, Anne?”

And then she said, “May I give you a hug?”

The gift

So there we were two former strangers sharing a hug in a McDonalds. All because of a wrong number.

Shirley placed a beautiful gift bag in front of me.

“I’d like you to have this.”

Carefully, I reached into the gift bag and the white tissue paper. Lifting out a small cardboard box, I cast my eyes on the most beautiful angel statuette I had ever seen.

“I collect these, but I don’t even have this one. I got it just for you because you’re my angel.”

And I stared at this porcelain angel with the most delicate features I had ever seen. The one that now sits in my china cabinet.

I met a woman who seemed to be a wrong number. She wasn’t a wrong number at all. It was a divine moment. And those moments are available to all of us.

We live in a world full of people who are hurting. People who need hope. And we all have the opportunity to reach out and provide that hope.

All we have to do is listen.

 

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This Post Has 4 Comments

  1. Pat Bieber

    Anne you shared this story with me verbally quite awhile ago. The written form is really good. While my first thought is “this is a page turner”, there were no pages to turn. This brief account had enough detail to drive me to read every word, right until the end. And what an ending! Time to rethink the pesty interruptions. We get so many calls that are “spam” or “scam” or an automated “person”, yet how many have I ignored that may have had a real person at the other end, in need of a little help, or a kind word of encouragement. Your story is quite challenging to me. In your way, you walked a mile in Shirley’s moccasins. Very nice.

    1. Anne Peterson

      Pat,
      Thanks so much for reading this blog and for taking the time to leave your comment.
      I love how God prompted me with Shirley. And every time I see my beautiful angel
      in the China cabinet, I’m reminded of how faithful God is in leading us. We just
      need to be still enough to hear Him, and willing to take the time. I appreciate
      your encouragement. And now we could use some prayer. All three of us are sick.

      Love,
      Anne

  2. Pamela

    Hi Anne
    I sit in my bed and the tears fill my eyes at this story and the goodness of God.
    I marvel at the so called coincidences that happen when you know God the Father, how that phone call and just listening to your inner voice that made you continue to talk to this lady.
    I have just found your articles and am encouraged by them and look forward to reading and getting closer to my father and letting him help with the painful things in my life , thankyou Anne.
    Pam 🌺

    1. Anne Peterson

      Pam,
      I want to thank you for taking the time to leave your comment.
      There is nothing like hearing His voice and having the privilege to respond to Him.

      As we continue to walk with Him and learn His character we have a better understanding. Not of the different experiences we go through, but of Him. We get to understand that He is always interested in our ultimate good. I wish I could say that the experiences get easier, but I’m afraid they don’t But there is that peace He talks about in His love letter to us. The peace that passes all understanding. And we continue to experience that peace that somehow reminds us, everything will be okay. He is with us, as He promised.

      Thank you again for your response. It was more confirmation that I’m to keep writing of all He has and is doing for me. The truth is without Him, I would have nothing to say and even less to write about.

      Pray for me, that I would continually hear His voice and have clarity about some opportunities that lie ahead.

      And if you don’t mind, let me pray for you.

      Father, I lift up Pam and I thank You that she has stumbled upon my articles. I pray Lord, that you would continually remind her of your great love for her. I pray that she would rest in that love when the enemy of our souls tries to tell us that you don’t love us, that you are too busy for us, or one of the other lies he uses. Every time we speak to You, You lean in. Thank you Lord, for your great love. I pray this in Jesus’ precious and Holy name. Amen.

      In His care,

      Anne
      annepeterson.com
      Life is hard. I write words to make it softer.

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